Seriously, you are the exception to the rule.  Even though the ECC has been ordaining women for over 50 years we still have more pastor’s wives than we have pastor’s husbands.  When we think about the plight of the pastor’s wife we have a lot of history to delve into.  When we think about the plight of the pastor’s husband we have a smaller sample size.  But your experience as a pastor’s husband is still valid and very much valued.  As we take this journey together please don’t hang out in the shadows.  Join us in conversation on the Facebook page and blog and connect with others during events where other spouses will be.  The button to the right is for your use, please let us know if you need help.  And it doesn’t need to be a crisis.

2015 Advent: Hope

2015 Advent: Hope

There is that scene towards the end of Home Alone.  Kevin, weary and sad on Christmas Eve steps into the huge cathedral downtown.  The seats are sparsely filled not even trying to win the contest waged by the voices of the choir echoing...

Saying Yes & No Honestly: No. 2

Saying Yes & No Honestly: No. 2

In my last post, I wrote about the importance of being yourself as a clergy spouse and how, for me, this means saying “yes” and “no” with honesty and integrity. Today I want to delve into this more by looking at some of the patterns I...

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